Why are you like your parents?

WHY DO YOU TAKE ON THE BAD QUALITIES OF YOUR PARENTS??


You know when your growing up and you see your parents do something or treat you a certain way, you always so Im not going to do that when Im older. Usually we say were not going to do that but turns out that we do. Well growing up my father didnt have the best life. His mother was real abusive to him and his sister both physically and mentally. Those bad traits that she did come out in him every once in awhile. Today is one of those days. I just would like to disappear on days like this when his "mother" comes out in him. I sit here crying right now as I write this b/c I am upset that he act like this. I know what kind of weekend its going to be. It takes nothing to set him off. Its kind of like he has bipolar or something. Why cant we take the good from our parents and not the bad? It seems like we always take away the bad.